Ecclesiastes 8:7 - Since no one knows the future, who can tell someone else what is to come?
Proverbs 23:18 - There is surely a future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off.
First off, I would like to apologize that I have done such a poor job at keeping up with the blog within the past month (if not longer...) I really don’t have any specific excuses besides the fact that I have been doing my best to be prepared for our move to Arizona. But at the end of the day I should have made time for posts and I just haven’t. And so before I say anything else, I want to say that I am truly sorry about my lack of consistency here.
So, we are finally back in York, Nebraska after 2 full weeks of visiting family in Missouri, Oklahoma, and other parts of Nebraska. We return to our humble one bedroom apartment that has become more of a place that we are keeping our stuff than a home. We return to the place that we have spent the past year and a half in as our newly created family only to find it destroyed by our mountains of boxes that lay in wait of moving. We return to fondness and distance all at the same time. We return to a life of metamorphosis.
It leads me to wonder about my future that God has in store. We know that we are going to be landing in Glendale, Arizona the evening of June 30th. We know that we have been preparing for this date for the past month. We know that God has been marinating and steeping our hearts and minds for this life change for years. We know that we are as ready we will ever be.
But we don’t know anything about tomorrow. We think we know but nothing is guaranteed. We may not even make it to Arizona at all. It may be morbid but it’s true. Nothing is contracted. Nothing is set in stone. This life is a vapor. We are but a breath. We can guess and plan and hypothesize until we drive ourselves crazy, but it doesn’t mean any of it is ours to hold.
So what does this mean for your marriage? It means that you may have things in your life that you just don’t get to. Daily I put things off, dedicating them to my ever growing “to-do” list. At the end of the day, the list will have an end and that end just might come sooner than you think. Maybe you’ve been meaning to fix the closet door for your wife but there doesn’t seem to be enough hours in the day to get to it. Maybe you’ve been planning on serving your husband his favorite dinner just because you love him but Hamburger Helper keeps on making it to the table because its easier and faster. Maybe you’ve been waiting to share a secret part of your soul but need the perfect moment to do it. Well friends,
there will never be enough hours,
important things take time,
and perfect moments are what you make of them.
The future is ever changing. It is created in the present. It is designed by the decisions that you make today. So next time that you put something on your “to-do” list, try and realize that a list is nothing but hopeful goals that don’t get done unless you make them get done. It’s just the reality of the issue. I would love to take the next several days off but we don’t have that luxury. This coming Thursday, we have to start to drive the 1,200 miles to our new home in Arizona. If we don’t pack and prepare, we will never move. And that is just not an option.
Mitch
Question: What is something that you can dedicate to crossing off of your list this next week?
P.S. Seeing as we are moving next week, Nathana and I will be taking at least the next week off. Perhaps longer if it takes us longer to get settled than we anticipate. We just may surprise you with random blogs along the way but we will see what that ever uncertain future holds.
WE LOVE YOU!
Proverbs 23:18 - There is surely a future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off.
First off, I would like to apologize that I have done such a poor job at keeping up with the blog within the past month (if not longer...) I really don’t have any specific excuses besides the fact that I have been doing my best to be prepared for our move to Arizona. But at the end of the day I should have made time for posts and I just haven’t. And so before I say anything else, I want to say that I am truly sorry about my lack of consistency here.
So, we are finally back in York, Nebraska after 2 full weeks of visiting family in Missouri, Oklahoma, and other parts of Nebraska. We return to our humble one bedroom apartment that has become more of a place that we are keeping our stuff than a home. We return to the place that we have spent the past year and a half in as our newly created family only to find it destroyed by our mountains of boxes that lay in wait of moving. We return to fondness and distance all at the same time. We return to a life of metamorphosis.
It leads me to wonder about my future that God has in store. We know that we are going to be landing in Glendale, Arizona the evening of June 30th. We know that we have been preparing for this date for the past month. We know that God has been marinating and steeping our hearts and minds for this life change for years. We know that we are as ready we will ever be.
But we don’t know anything about tomorrow. We think we know but nothing is guaranteed. We may not even make it to Arizona at all. It may be morbid but it’s true. Nothing is contracted. Nothing is set in stone. This life is a vapor. We are but a breath. We can guess and plan and hypothesize until we drive ourselves crazy, but it doesn’t mean any of it is ours to hold.
So what does this mean for your marriage? It means that you may have things in your life that you just don’t get to. Daily I put things off, dedicating them to my ever growing “to-do” list. At the end of the day, the list will have an end and that end just might come sooner than you think. Maybe you’ve been meaning to fix the closet door for your wife but there doesn’t seem to be enough hours in the day to get to it. Maybe you’ve been planning on serving your husband his favorite dinner just because you love him but Hamburger Helper keeps on making it to the table because its easier and faster. Maybe you’ve been waiting to share a secret part of your soul but need the perfect moment to do it. Well friends,
there will never be enough hours,
important things take time,
and perfect moments are what you make of them.
The future is ever changing. It is created in the present. It is designed by the decisions that you make today. So next time that you put something on your “to-do” list, try and realize that a list is nothing but hopeful goals that don’t get done unless you make them get done. It’s just the reality of the issue. I would love to take the next several days off but we don’t have that luxury. This coming Thursday, we have to start to drive the 1,200 miles to our new home in Arizona. If we don’t pack and prepare, we will never move. And that is just not an option.
Mitch
Question: What is something that you can dedicate to crossing off of your list this next week?
P.S. Seeing as we are moving next week, Nathana and I will be taking at least the next week off. Perhaps longer if it takes us longer to get settled than we anticipate. We just may surprise you with random blogs along the way but we will see what that ever uncertain future holds.
WE LOVE YOU!