A couple months ago, our minister, Wyane, preached a sermon series on the marriage covenant. In his first sermon he quoted a section of scripture that I had heard parts of quoted, but never in the larger context. Powerful words with a straight-forward message: Keep the faith by keeping your covenants.
In Malachi 2:10, Judah is rebuked for breaking their covenant of faith with God by marrying foreign gods. The imagery of God’s people as his bride, is beautiful, stirring, and striking. But, the chapter continues.
In Malachi 2:10, Judah is rebuked for breaking their covenant of faith with God by marrying foreign gods. The imagery of God’s people as his bride, is beautiful, stirring, and striking. But, the chapter continues.
Another thing you do: You flood the Lord’s altar with tears. You weep and wail because he no longer pays attention to your offerings or accepts them with pleasure from your hands. You ask, “Why?” It is because the Lord is acting as the witness between you and the wife of your youth, because you have broken faith with her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant. Has not the Lord made them one? In flesh and spirit they are his. And why one? Because he was seeking godly offspring. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith with the wife of your youth. “I hate divorce says the Lord God of Israel, “and I hate a man’s covering himself with violence as well as with his garment,” says the Lord Almighty. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith. Malachi 2:13-16
God is clear on his design and what brings him disappointment in his children. Neglecting to keep the faith in our marriages, like other sins, forms a wall between us and God. In some ways even more so because of the covenant we made with our spouse. Our wedding day might create a vow between two people; but, God is also our witness! He is a part of that covenant; he makes the husband and wife one is flesh and spirit.
There are two things I would like to draw out of this passage:
1. It is a violent act to divorce. To divorce is to rip apart a covenant that makes two people one in spirit and flesh. It also tears apart families. It is not a clean process; it is bloody, messy, and damaging. God wants “Godly offspring” that includes his children that are entering into marriage covenants, but also the children that are blessed to that husband and wife. Both are injured in the breaking apart of marriages. Now, I have known people who were in very harmful marriages and I feel like God has blessed them since their first marriage with a second beautiful marriage covenant. However, out of all the cases of divorce, this is very rarely the case and often still could have been avoided if both spouses treated the covenant with honor and respect.
2. Our marriages should be a priority in our lives. God makes it clear that He hates divorce and it is violent. He also reminds us that keeping the faith in our marriage affects our relationship with Him. We need to attend to the preservation and prosperity of our marriages. If we are seeking to have hearts like God, we need to value and cherish what he values.
Questions:
1. How can you better value and cherish your spouse and marriage covenant?
2. “Keeping the faith” is a big idea. I believe that it entails more than just being sexually faithful. Do you agree or disagree? Why?
There are two things I would like to draw out of this passage:
1. It is a violent act to divorce. To divorce is to rip apart a covenant that makes two people one in spirit and flesh. It also tears apart families. It is not a clean process; it is bloody, messy, and damaging. God wants “Godly offspring” that includes his children that are entering into marriage covenants, but also the children that are blessed to that husband and wife. Both are injured in the breaking apart of marriages. Now, I have known people who were in very harmful marriages and I feel like God has blessed them since their first marriage with a second beautiful marriage covenant. However, out of all the cases of divorce, this is very rarely the case and often still could have been avoided if both spouses treated the covenant with honor and respect.
2. Our marriages should be a priority in our lives. God makes it clear that He hates divorce and it is violent. He also reminds us that keeping the faith in our marriage affects our relationship with Him. We need to attend to the preservation and prosperity of our marriages. If we are seeking to have hearts like God, we need to value and cherish what he values.
Questions:
1. How can you better value and cherish your spouse and marriage covenant?
2. “Keeping the faith” is a big idea. I believe that it entails more than just being sexually faithful. Do you agree or disagree? Why?